The Truth Is…

There are people who won’t agree with this post and there are people who will…. This is just a friendly reminder that… this is my opinion *Kanye shrug* It’s MINE. I can have it… Shall we proceed?

The shaderoom posted this picture a few days ago and sis, I am NOT here for it!
My reaction was :

I mean…. Maybe that’s why I’m not married yet…. SYKE! If that’s what’s holding me back…I’ll be single FOREVAAAAA! *cardi B voice*
Seriously tho…

The Truth is…

Sis, someone should’ve helped you up… I mean…I have questions…


who lead you to believe that this is ok?

Where are your friends?
What did your pastor say?
I mean where are your Parents? Did they approve?
The Truth Is…

This is ONE thing.. okay… if I’m being honest…One of MANY things that I will NOT be here for….

I’ve heard several times that

If a man wants you, he will come and get you… to me… “taking the bull by the horns” means making sure your house is in order… you heart is right… your connection to the plug(GOD) is your main focus…

The Truth is…

We all get impatient… we all wonder when it’s going to happen. I’ve had a few friends who never really talked about marriage they never seemed to wonder “when” they just did them and one day(and no, not an extended period of time) there, their man was down on that knee asking for, forever.

The Truth Is…
The bible says:

“Whosoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of the LORD.” – Proverbs 18:22

I meannn maybe I read something wrong… because that doesn’t say If I find a good thing… I’d like to think I AM THE GOOD THING.. 

This is not to say that the men aren’t good things too but I think it’s been made clear about who’s suppose to lead here…. 

If I was her…. my friends would fight me…. literally step in between this moment and throw the hands…. like as they see me getting down to NOT tie my shoe….to open a box … this would be them 

The Truth Is…

I don’t want to completely bash it.. really to each his own…right? who knows?… different cultures call for different things… but if the Princess im raising to be a Queen, decides that she‘s going to do this… you already know imma fly off the handle. 

If a man wants you to be his wife… HE WILL MAKE YOU HIS WIFE! You Don’t have to ask him to be your husband…. I mean…as far as im concerned, you don’t have to ask a man to be something that he already wants to be….

That’s not to say that the guy in this picure didn’t want to… I mean obviously he said yes.. but….idk sway…. This can’t be right… If men are supposed to be the head… does that change when a woman asks for his hand? I mean does she become the provider, protector… 

I mean to me that would be a CLEAR indication that anything I wanted in the marriage would come from me initiating  it… oh honnneeeyyyyy this goes deeper than you asking for HIS hand in marriage… or did you not notice?

Or is it just me? 🤷🏽‍♀️

Oh ok. 


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